Their Neptune in your 11th house

They inspire dreams for your future

In synastry, you place one person's planets into the other person's houses. When someone's Neptune, where you dream, falls in your 11th house, Circle, that part of them shows up in the part of your life about friends, community, future goals.

What it's like

Group plans with a utopian streak, a cause you both care about. This person lifts your hopes for community, so keep one foot on the ground.

The good

They inspire hopeful visions for your future

The tension

Big hopes may not match your friends' reality

It depends who they are

The same placement plays out differently with a partner, an ex or your mum.

If they're your partner

They inspire dreams for your future

With this person you picture the shared future in warm colour. Your friends may find them charming, and a bit hard to pin down.

If they're a crush

They fit your dream circle

This person seems to match an imagined future of friends and community. It is lovely, and still a daydream.

If they're an ex

They made friends and futures hazy

This person brought an idealistic, vague quality to your plans and your circle. Good intentions, but nobody quite knew who was doing what.

If they're a friend

They bring dreamers into your circle

This person introduces you to creative, kind, slightly chaotic people. Your hopes for the future get more imaginative and less practical.

If they're family

They see the best in your circle

This person is idealistic about the family and your friends, and slow to see faults. They help you stay hopeful about people.

The other way round: Your Neptune in their 11th house

You make their dreams seem possible

Your Neptune in this person's 11th gives their hopes for the future some magic. They find like-minded friends, and also may overestimate what a group can do.

About Neptune

Neptune is imagination, longing, spirituality and the gentle blur where reality meets wishful thinking. Its sign shapes a generation's ideals; its house shows where you personally drift, dream and sometimes see what you want to see.

About the 11th house, Circle

The 11th house is your people: friends, groups, online communities and the causes you join. It's also your hopes for the future and who you want to get there with.

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