Their Venus in your 11th house

They're lovely with your friends

In synastry, you place one person's planets into the other person's houses. When someone's Venus, how you love, falls in your 11th house, Circle, that part of them shows up in the part of your life about friends, community, future goals.

What it's like

Remembering everyone's name and birthday. This person brings charm to your community and everyone seems to like them, which makes shared plans smoother.

The good

They bring friendliness to your wider circle

The tension

You may feel pulled by a crowd of admirers

It depends who they are

The same placement plays out differently with a partner, an ex or your mum.

If they're your partner

They're lovely with your friends

This person charms your friends and remembers their names. Social life together is pleasant, though they might be keen to keep everyone happy.

If they're a crush

They are a friend you fancy

This person blends friendship and flirtation. Group settings make the chemistry easier, and also muddier.

If they're an ex

They were a friend as well as a lover

This person brought affection, a sociable energy and an easy way with your friends. The friendship may be what's left, and that is worth looking at calmly.

If they're a friend

They are a gift to your social circle

This person makes your friends like each other, which is a rare talent. They add warmth and ease to groups and shared hopes.

If they're family

They love your friends too

This person is gracious to the people you bring along, and wants you to be liked. Their warmth helps you feel welcome in wider company.

The other way round: Your Venus in their 11th house

You are loved by their friends

Your Venus in this person's 11th gets you invited to everything. Their friends like you, and the bond may feel easy because it sits among so many other happy ties.

About Venus

Venus is what you find beautiful, who you're drawn to and how you like to be treated. It covers love, but also taste, money spent on pleasure and the art of getting along.

About the 11th house, Circle

The 11th house is your people: friends, groups, online communities and the causes you join. It's also your hopes for the future and who you want to get there with.

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