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Venus in Aquarius

Best friends first, lovers second.

Your Venus sign is your love language in astrology. It shows what you find attractive, how you show affection and what makes you feel truly wanted.

How you love

With Venus in Aquarius, you want friendship at the heart of love, plus plenty of room to be yourself.

What you want back

You need a relationship with room for your independence and your oddness. You're drawn to the unusual, and you love most freely when you don't feel owned.

Element
Air
Ruled by
Uranus
Style
Unusually, independently, for the future

Venus in Aquarius, house by house

The house shows where in life your love style shows up most.

I SelfQuirky, friendly and a bit unconventional, you're attractive because you're unlike anyone else, and you love with an open mind.
II WorthTech, good causes and odd little treasures get your money, and independence is worth more to you than any designer label.
III VoiceClever chats and surprising ideas are how you love siblings and neighbours, and you probably flirt mostly through memes.
IV RootsHousemates, chosen family and an open door: you love the people at home in a modern, independent, slightly unusual way.
V DesireUnpredictable and exciting, your romances never follow the script, and creatively you love experimenting with new ideas and tech.
VI RitualFriendly, equal workplaces suit you, and colleagues often become your closest friends, or occasionally something more.
VII BondsBest friend first, partner second: you want someone who respects your independence and finds your quirks genuinely lovable.
VIII ShadowPlenty of breathing room keeps intimacy healthy for you, and you're open-minded about relationships that don't fit the usual mould.
IX DistanceSomeone from a completely different background could steal your heart, because unusual beliefs and places make you curious.
X CallingFriendly charm and fresh ideas help your career, and work in tech, science or social causes may suit your values.
XI CircleFriendship is your greatest love, and you dream of a future full of community, causes and kindred spirits.
XII DepthFeelings can seem oddly far away when you're alone, so quiet time helps you notice what your heart actually wants.

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